CoupleOS is a private space to document who you are: your needs, values, boundaries, and what matters to you. Use it solo to get clear on yourself, or share it with a partner to build deeper understanding together.

Can I use CoupleOS if I'm single?

Yes. CoupleOS is designed to work solo. Many people use it to get clear on their own needs, values, and boundaries. Knowing yourself first means you can show up fully when you do meet someone.

How is this different from a journal or notes app?

Notes apps aren't structured for self-understanding or relationships. CoupleOS is built around who you are (your preferences, boundaries, values) with the option to share specific parts with a partner. It's intentional, not scattered.

Is my information private?

Completely. You control what you share and with whom. Your profile is yours. If a relationship ends, your information stays with you and separation is clean.

For singles getting clear · For couples going deeper

Know yourself.
Know your person.

Document your needs, values, and boundaries, for yourself or to share with a partner. CoupleOS is where self-understanding meets deeper connection.

✨Free to start

🔒Private by default

💜Works solo or together

Sound familiar?

Most of us never learned how to articulate who we are.

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"What do I even need?"

You know something's off, but you can't quite name it. Your needs, values, and boundaries live in your head, scattered and unspoken.

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"They don't really get me."

You've told them before. They forget. It's not malicious, but it still hurts to feel unknown by someone who loves you.

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"Same patterns, new person."

Without clarity on who you are and what you need, you keep repeating the same relationship dynamics.

"You can't be truly known until you know yourself. And you can't know someone else until they've shown you who they are."

What if you could finally
put it into words?

Your needs. Your values. Your boundaries. The things that make you you. Captured somewhere you can see them clearly, and share them when you're ready.

How CoupleOS works

Start with yourself. Expand when you're ready.

Your profile works solo. Add a partner whenever, or never.

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Your Profile

Works solo

Document who you are. Your needs, values, boundaries, finally articulated. For your own clarity, or to share when you're ready.

Your needs and values
Your boundaries and non-negotiables
What makes you feel loved

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Partner's Profile

Optional

When you connect with someone, learn who they really are. Stop guessing. Start understanding.

Their preferences and values
What they need when stressed
The details that matter to them

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Shared Space

Optional

When you're together, capture the relationship itself. Milestones, agreements, your story.

Relationship milestones
Agreements you've made
Your shared timeline

The shift

From confusion to clarity

Before

"I don't know what I actually need."
"They don't really understand me."
"I keep ending up in the same patterns."
Important things slip through the cracks

After

"I finally know what I need."
"I feel truly seen and understood."
"I can show up fully in relationships."
What matters is captured and clear

Two paths. One starting point.

Both start with knowing yourself.

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Solo path

1
Create your profile
Document your needs, values, and boundaries.
2
Get clear on who you are
Use it for self-reflection and clarity.
3
Share when you're ready
Add a partner anytime, or never.

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Couples path

1
Both create profiles
Each of you documents who you are.
2
Connect your profiles
See each other clearly. Stop guessing.
3
Build your shared space
Capture milestones, agreements, your story.

Questions

What exactly is CoupleOS?

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CoupleOS is a private space where you and your partner capture who you really are: your needs, boundaries, preferences, and what makes each of you tick. Instead of letting important details slip through the cracks or having the same conversations over and over, you build a living understanding of each other that grows with your relationship.

How is this different from just talking to each other?

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Talking is essential, but we forget. We get busy. We assume we know things we don't. CoupleOS captures what matters so it doesn't disappear into the chaos of daily life. It's not a replacement for communication; it's where communication gets remembered.

Is it free?

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Yes. Core features are completely free. No credit card required to start. We believe everyone deserves to feel known in their relationship.

What about privacy?

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Your profile is yours. You control exactly what you share and with whom. If a relationship ends, your information stays with you. Separation is clean and respectful. We believe understanding should build connection, never be weaponized.

Can I use it if I'm not in a relationship?

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Absolutely. Many people use CoupleOS solo to get clear on their own needs, values, and boundaries. Think of it as knowing yourself first, so when you do meet someone, you can show up fully and communicate what you need from day one.